Why privacy is a new luxury?

For years, luxury proposals were associated with more. More candles, more flowers, more elaborate decor, with musicians, photographer, videographers, content creator and whole friends and family gathered together. That was a general picture of a luxury marriage proposal in New York. And even though it still is, the trends are changing now.

Nowadays, luxury is in privacy. A private location with intimate decor and atmosphere is what clients are seeking. In the busiest city in the world, you can have something that millions of people visiting it can’t have, and that is a piece of city entirely to yourself.

How to propose on a private rooftop in NYC?

1. A private rooftop proposal doesn’t mean you need to sacrifice decor or photography, it simply means that the whole event will run like an experience vs a quick moment in a park. Choose the decor that you like, if you want to go over the top, do it. But keep your partner in mind. More doesn’t mean better.
2. Still have a photographer and videographer present, but let them stay hidden at least for a couple of minutes. Let “we just got engaged’ sink in, enjoy the moment. And after start a photo session.
3. Surprise factor. A private venue makes the surprise better. It is a curated environment, where you know exactly what/ when/ where is going to happen. Unlike a proposal in a park, where you can stumble upon 3 other proposals on the way, a private venue is reserved just for you.

Why is a private rooftop a new luxury?

1. A private moment doesn’t need an audience. You might cry, she might cry, you want to feel free to express your feelings and not be bothered by people recording you on the phone. Being yourself is a luxury.
2. Better surprise. You can create the whole day experience and make it look natural. Say you are going to a friend’s birthday celebration or work event. If you are from out of town, a restaurant or speakeasy bar is a good excuse why you are going to the venue. Unlike proposals in the park, you don’t have to leave right away. Spend some time remembering the moment, stay present. Remember how it felt.
3. Investment. Yes, private venues are more expensive than proposals in the park. But you are paying for  space, time, access and privacy. It is an investment in your future and the memories that you build together.

Best private venues for a luxury proposal?

1. If you are looking for the best rooftop with the Empire State Building view, the Empire Lights Rooftop is your choice. It is a private rooftop with a direct view of the Empire State Building. Ideal for 10-15 guests. You can pick your own decor or go with the pre-designed package. The best time for a proposal would be right after sunset, when the Empire State Building is lit up.  The ‘wow’ factor guaranteed.
2. Secret Garden. This iconic proposal venue is ideal for an intimate engagement. Located on the 5th avenue, it is the most serene space you can find. Lavish greenery, pool and the iconic marble church on your background make this place unforgettable. You don’t really need any decorations here as the place looks magical by itself.
3. Rooftop for two. If you are looking for the broad skyline views, this would be the best rooftop for you. From the Brooklyn Bridge to the Empire State Building, the Freedom Tower to the Chrysler Building, you can see everything from here.  You cant do much of the decor here as its very windy ( top floor), so most of the decor wont hold up. But the view speaks for itself.

When planning your proposal, always think of your partner and what  they would  like. Think of the proposal as an experience for both of you. By choosing a private venue, you get a beautiful place where the city belongs only to the two of you. And that is priceless.

Tatiana Caicedo